Hi again all,
I also think that most people ..... spouses included ...... do not realize the actual work that goes into making the money.
for my situation ......I work better with a tv on in front of me .. (I have adhd) and have trouble staying focused. I even need the tv to sleep and have more than once woke up when she turned it off to say .. I was listening to that. truth. maybe not watching but seemingly a part of my brain cannot turn off ... I need the extra stimulation.
I work mostly at night by choice (i'm a vampire ... so's my son ...its in our blood. we don't know our names before noon no matter what time we TRY to sleep).
my lady came into my life when I was finally making money at this .... and has no reason to complain as it funds her, the 4 daughters ..... and makes it possible to take care of her grandparents.
but its still a difficult situation. I get up at noon on a good day.. often work till dawn or later on most days.
but I think ..... maybe especially my situation because I do watch tv while working ... that my spouse thinks this all comes easy and i'm a lazy ....no good sob at least some the time.
not the case. but hard to prove since when she's in the room ..... I don't or seldom concentrate on the subject at hand.
I explain it this way ...... if it was really that easy ..... everybody'd be doing it. but there are few that are successful enough to go full time.
that all said: for me its addictive. I feel I'm getting something done working and watching tv but when I try to take time off .....just watch tv ...... I feel like I'm worthless and wasting time.
hang in there K. But as mentioned earlier ..... the quickest way I can think of to make a man feel like a hobby or job isn't worth it .... is to leave him wanting in bed. *again apologize to the females if I sound offensive but this is the truth as I see it. - btw: some of you guys could speak up to back up this theory as I know its true but will hold a lot more water with a little back up.
