Thank you to everyone who has supported this and i mean that from the bottom of my heart.
Anyone of you are welcome to a link back from me and i will happily oblige.
Have to say this story has brought tears to my eyes more than once and taken up a lot of my time, however, whatever i can do to help with this in anyway is worth twice the time i am dedicating.
Please realise too, that the family are very much thankful for the support.
Fred, you touched me so much with your comments, we have not seen eye to eye recently, i like to think we are not personally at odds with each other as you are a very well respected person here in West Brom.
You offered your support and this shows even more so how much of a man and good person you are.
If only an email address was a brick and mortar address, i would be on a plane to kick that ignorant bastard where it hurts after the comment he sent to the official email address for the family. Thank God my daughter admin's the email and not the parents.
Once again thank you all so much - you will never know how much this means to me.