Hi and thanks for coming in,

I just went thru a scary time trying to find a step daughter.

She's cute as a bug and about as much sense.

I wish to echo these words that men have been saying for centuries, but you ladies don't seem to understand ... but i think I may have found a way to prove the point.

Caveat being gay friends.

He says he's your friend.

He's very comforting, Always supportive. Always available and always agreeable.

If you fall down, he picks you up. Perhaps even mentions how everybody should be so lucky to look that good when falling.

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Now here's how a man truly treats a friend.

If he's your friend, it don't need saying and if he does make a point to say it, red flags go up because he either wants something , or is planting a seed to be harvested later.

He's only truly comforting in the case of death, divorce you didn't cause or initiate and supportive only to the point of not having to help you move out or let you stay at his house. A loan for a hotel is commonly the extended supportive effort.

He's only agreeable if it shuts your ass up and moves you out of the way of the tv or fridge, depending upon the moment.

If you fall down, he assesses the situation and laughs. He laughs and then assesses the situation. He laughs and figures if you don't catch up in a few strides then it must have been serious.


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At NO time do the two compared scenarios ever cross paths!